Sometimes what seems like surrender isn’t surrender at all. It’s about what’s going on in our hearts. About seeing clearly the way life is and accepting it and being true to it, whatever the pain, because the pain of not being true to it is far, far greater.
Nicholas Evans, The Horse Whisperer
Tags: BDSM relationships, pain as pleasure, pain not pleasure, power play, serving
It’s good to have girls in the office.
Tags: lessons for bitches, power play, serving
As a domestic submissive, one of my duties is to make sure the home is warm and inviting to those who live here as well as the guests we entertain — and by that, I mean it offers as many invitations to using me as possible. Today’s example is the ottoman.
It must be the correct height, strong enough to take abuse, and an easy to clean surface is best.
Image via Sex & Submission.
(There’s that anal hook again! As if the position and control of the head isn’t enough to keep a submissive slut in place!)
Tags: anal, BDSM relationships, cock sucking, hair pulling, more than two tango, serving, threesome
I’m a fan of this sort of submissiveness:
You know what I really like? Mental submissiveness. A woman who won’t run or fight but instead will do what she is told whenever or wherever she is told to do it. You can see the discomfort or outright pain in her body language but she is doing as she’s told. Restraints are not necessary but instead are visual and physical cues. She restrains herself so much so that her body aches afterwards from her own efforts to please. And when it is done and she is moving through the aches and pains she is proud of herself for having pleased him.
Tags: BDSM relationships, serving
As I’ve stated, supervised masturbation is difficult for me. Apparently I have performance anxiety.
This is one reason why when we travel together, Blackie will bring in a total stranger and order me to masturbate in front of them.
Sometimes Blackie will stand behind the seated man, who’s often masturbating while watching me. Other times, Blackie will stand behind me so that I cannot even find him with my eyes and find some respite there; a few times Blackie’s even left the room entirely.
But the worst is when Blackie brings in one of his business associates to supervise my masturbation — because then I know someday I’ll likely meet him again, and that man’s knowing, leering, smug smile will torment me.
Animated gif of Ultra Violett masturbating by Fuckmaker; found via S & M = Smoke & Mirrors.
Marc has trained me, like a dog, to follow his commands; these are a few of them.
Tags: humiliation, serving
Every morning I’m with Marc, he likes to start off his day by frosting my face — after I’ve already done my makeup, so I have to start all over again.
Tags: cock sucking, humiliation, lessons for bitches, power play, serving
Sucking his cock while he reads the paper or watches television is so demeaning…
It’s like you’re just a tool carrying out some perfunctory task, an everyday appliance doing an everyday boring routine thing that simply must be done.
What I do may be pleasurable, but I won’t be looked at, let alone given a smile for a job well done. Hell, even his hand gets looked at every now and then when he masturbates, but while I service him like this, I might as well be the coffee pot or the radio.
Like those appliances, I’ll only be noticed when I’m not working right — and then I’d probably get the old horizontal-slap or a kick too.
PS This photo isn’t of me. I don’t even know where it came from; if you do, let me know so I can properly credit it!
Tags: cock sucking, humiliation, no touching, power play, serving
Soft, heavy & tender, I hold them in my hands, presenting them as instructed. My mind is in a similar situation…
Tags: big breasts, nipples, phone sex availability, serving, sub space is divine
When Blackie spotted this photo on Saturday, he called me on the phone, gave me a shopping list, and ordered me to bring everything to his office within an hour.
