Like being all dressed up for your dinner date and having to wait for your boyfriend, being stripped, bound and blindfolded, sitting accessible on display yet just waiting to be used can be quite maddening.

…It’s made terribly worse if you are waiting so and you can hear the movements and activities of others.

Life does indeed go on without you.

It drives home the point that you are nothing more than a toy, a diversion; that you have nothing better to do that just wait until he wishes to play with you.